I agree one hundred percent. I dont have any children but I nanny full time for a 4yr old and a 18month old. The 4 year old eats nothing but garbage. He is very thin and active but they dont seem to care that vegetables dont touch his mouth. His dad thinks a perfect breakfast is a bowl of instant oatmeal with honey mixed in. When I suggested he switch to Steel Cut oats he said "oh they would never eat that" and dismissed it. The 4 year old cycles between 4 or 5 different foods everyday. For breakfast oatmeal or a bagel, for lunch hotdogs, Pbj, mac and cheese, or chicken fingers. That is it, that is all he will eat. I have started forcing him to eat vegetables if he wants a "treat" but I think its terribly sad. They take him to Chick Fil A almost every day for lunch and see nothing wrong with it.
The 18 month old I have been responsible for feeding since he started eating solid foods so he eats much better. He will eat up to a can of veggies for lunch and loves most vefetables. He will eat a tomato raw like an apple. His mom cant figure out why he eats so much better than the brother but I know its because I have been feeding him a veggie with every meal since he started eating solids. Unlike the brother who they dont force to eat anything he doesnt want.
I think its laziness truthfully. Its much easier to feed your child highly proccessed, sugar filled junk than it is to actually cook for them and feed them well. I also think there are a lot of myths and wrong beliefs. Some people I work for give their daughter whole milk all day long. I dont think that whole milk is bad but to drink it steadily throughout the day is ridiculous. She cries if you give her anything but milk for petes sake! It cannot be a healthy habit to start. She may need that many calories now but what about when she is older? Kids should be used to drinking water regularly, not just sugar filled juices and whiole milk.
My kids will be vegetarians, and this post has only solidified that belief. The first thing my boyfriend said when I told him that was "I dont want little wimpy kids" I just gaped at him. I couldnt believe he would even believe something like that. That meat makes you strong and beefy. What a load of hooey.
Here is a link you all should check out. I just found it on a website, it may have been here actually.
This woman blogs what she feeds her vegan son. Even if you arent a vegetarian you can check out her site and get some healthy lunch ideas for your kids. She is amazing I would love to be her child! I would love to be able to feed my children as well as she feeds hers for that matter!
Check it out:
http://veganlunchbox.blogspot.com/20...x_archive.html