catmama-you are most welcome, but I actually had quite a bad couple of days,
long story is on the Flex Talk Page, but the short story is I did have a loss,
some days are just so tough, but baby steps, I just hate those backward steps that we also have to get through. I'm just so thankful for this thread, I look so forward to reading all the posts, everybody goes through this struggle, but it's nice to read the good news of others, and take the focus off your woes. Enjoy your day