peachcake87 - It sounds like you are on your way!
Try searching around a bit for a healthier version of fettuccine alfredo. I'm sure you'll find something!
Remember, this healthy lifestyle is about compromise and control. Instead of giving up things that you love, find healthier ways to prepare them, and eat less then you would have before.
Kudos to you for controlling yourself with the baking! I no longer bake, because it was too much temptation for me (I was never good at it, anyway, and there are lots of people in my life who are great at it and love to share

).