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Originally Posted by Tamikl
I totally understand your frustration! I go in and out of feeling sorry for myself sometimes on this program, and then I realize that I am choosing to do this for myself. Noone forced MRC on me...by simple definition, that is not me being deprived at all...simply because I have a choice. So try to keep that in mind 
"One day at a time" is also my motto in all of this...I am not in a hurry. I also give myself permission to have a small little off plan treat when I WI and did well. This motivates me, also. I don't go out and splurge...just that simple little treat. If I don't lose weight at my WI, I don't have a treat.
The "two bite" rule...I embrace this often!! LOL
Like you, I live 45 minutes away from my center, so I go once per week. The positive of that is that I have a consistent counselor each time I go...because it is like a satellite center off the main one which is based a bit further away from me. She runs this one, so getting to work with her and her alone is great for me. When I was feeling frustrated and unmotivated, she is the one that helped me to create this plan for myself. Some don't agree that food should be a reward, but it is all in perspective...
Keep going...it does work. When you fall off plan, climb right back on it. Decide how important it is to you to lose the weight, and remind yourself of it each day. Now that I am finally seeing results in myself...that is a huge motivator.
Take care and hang in there! We all relate!!!!!!!!!!!
Tami
Tami,
Thanks for all your kind words and advice! I will be following a lot of it
How long have you been doing this? I looked back and actually counted--I've only been OP for 3 weeks today!

It seems A LOT longer than that. I'm just in a rut with my food. I'm also nervous because today starts our town's Street Fair for the week. The entire town is shut down for the whole week. It's like a carnival with all the good food (tons and tons) and fun rides, from today through Sat. night. It's my husband's favorite time of year, especially since his birthday always falls during this week! We will go tonight for the opening parade, Thursday night for the Industrial Parade and we're working our church's Taco Trailer Sat. night! So, I need to decide what my absolute favorite must have's are, and only splurge on those. It's not like I'll never taste these things again! And except for the chocolate chip cookie I just ate, I've been OP all day! I will eat dinner before we leave to go tonight and plan to just look around and see what my choices are for the evening. I'd like to not eat anything there tonight and decide what I want for Thursday. Anyway, I'll get through it.
As for everyone with the constipation issues: it seems my fish oil really helps with that. I haven't had any issues so far, and it seems as soon as I take my big 3 pills along with the fish oil in the morning, I'm all set to go! Hopefully you can figure it out and not be too uncomfortable. I have problems with my bowels at times, so I know how painful and not fun it can be.
I'm really trying to focus on my water for the day...and staying positive. I need to come up with more protein choices for lunch. My husband has been doing turkey breast, which I don't think is the best idea. I finally looked at the sodium yesterday and about flipped! Needless to say, he's not going to be eating it for lunch every day anymore. He's so picky, it's not even funny. So we need to go over the cookbook again and see what we can make. I'm really enjoying the vegetables though, especially since before this I NEVER made sautéed veggies because my DH thought it was nasty and smelled up the house. Now though, he doesn't get a choice but to smell it and deal with it

Of course, he still won't eat them, but at least I get to enjoy them.
I think we're going to get a medical scales, with the balance beam on top and not digital. DH mentioned it when we first started OP, but I wasn't sure. Now though, since we can't make it in all the time, I really would like to know how well I'm doing. We have an old feed scales in the garage, and though I think it works pretty accurately, it isn't always consistent. I'm excited--though I'll probably get obsessive with it
Hope you all have a great day.
Nichole