[goldbergvariations]

I have met this incredible woman who is here in my country on a very short term trip. I am not going to see her again after 2 weeks and over the past month I have connected with her at such a subliminal and personal level.

I get the feeling that she is as attracted to me as I am to her but I am just not able to gauge for sure whether she is. And, I just really lack the confidence of actually asking her or telling her how I feel. And I am not even sure if telling her anything is going to make an iota of difference.

I know this is a terrible place to ask such a question but I am wondering if anyone here has had such a problem

PS: Hope I don't get banned for making such a personal post!

[Sandman79]

Originally Posted by goldbergvariations

I have met this incredible woman who is here in my country on a very short term trip. I am not going to see her again after 2 weeks and over the past month I have connected with her at such a subliminal and personal level.

I get the feeling that she is as attracted to me as I am to her but I am just not able to gauge for sure whether she is. And, I just really lack the confidence of actually asking her or telling her how I feel. And I am not even sure if telling her anything is going to make an iota of difference.

I know this is a terrible place to ask such a question but I am wondering if anyone here has had such a problem

PS: Hope I don't get banned for making such a personal post!

First all of you might as well go for it because you will always wonder if you don't. If she totally shoots you down, she will be gone in 2 weeks and you will forget about it eventually. You never know it might be the love of your life. Just give it shot and see if the feelings are mutual. Good luck!!!!!

[Resolute]

I agree with Sandman, life is short and you never know.

[Mindless Games]

She's probably just as nervous as you are
Fortune favors the bold!
Go for it.

[MiZTaCCen]

Be confident and fake it, woman love confident men. I'm attracted to this guy who pretends he's confident unfortunately I can tell he's a little insecure because he does the same things I do when I'm insecure about myself...but still it doesn't stop me from liking him. Ask her anyways and as someone said if she rejects you, well theres always more fish in the sea!