I can relate to not wanting to wear tight clothing. I want to be comfortable! I tend to avoid fitted waist bands except for my jeans. Even then, I'm most comfortable when I've got about an inch of slack. My work clothing is primarily slacks and long sleeve tops or sweaters. I found some nice, professional looking elastic waist slacks at Dress Barn that I just love. I still have some of my 3X sweaters. In fact, I'm wearing one today even though I fit now into a 1X or XL.
I have a friend who has also lost a lot of weight. She gets on me from time to time about my loose fitting clothing. But I'm just not physically or emotionally comfortable in clothing that is too tight. Now, this is catty of me, but I think her clothing is too tight. She looks like she's been poured into it and is busting the seams. There's probably a balance somewhere between the two of us.
