I've lost enough weight now that I just can't wear many of the clothes I used to because they are too loose on me. On one hand, I'm happy that I need a smaller size. But at the same time I have some clothes I really love that I know won't fit me anymore, and I feel sad at the idea of getting rid of them. Has anyone else experienced this?
Hey there, I'm going through the same dilemma. I have some really beautiful dresses, tops and jackets that I'm going to have to say good-bye to. And it is definitely sad
The other irritating part is that I don't want to buy new stuff until I'm at goal, because I'm scared the new things start looking silly also when I lose more weight. So I can't even replace my nice clothes with new nice clothes yet.
I'm feeling your pain, but just keep in mind that soon you'll be able to buy new things which you may love even more, because you'll love your body more!
Over the winter, I was so happy to be able to fit into a sweater from years ago that I loved. Now, it's too big but I can't bring myself to donate it just yet. So I know how you feel, but I'll tell you that it's a lot of fun buying new clothes.
Dealing with that, too. Actually going to see about having some pants taken in. They are too big but I like them, and I want to be closer to goal before buying new ones.
When you're at goal get some of your very favourites taken in, in the mean time I'd say thrift stores are your friend. I'd also say keep a favourite outfit to wear further down the line to see how far you've come. It's a good way to see progress - I put on my old favourite trousers now and then to see how they look and I'm swimming in them now. Now I have nice trousers that I look a million times better in and I feel more comfortable too, I think that's the most important thing.
There will always be nice clothes so don't worry about the old ones.
I just might have some of my things taken in later on, and yes, I think I will have to become best friends with the local thrift stores because I can't afford to buy new clothes every several months as I under-grow them.
And - you can absolutely get new pretty things right now! Tons of places where you can get cheap "in between" clothes that look nice. Ross, Target, H&M, Forever 21, etc. For sure, it doesn't make sense to get a ton of variety but you really should get nice things for yourself to celebrate your successes!
The most fun part is... buying nice things somewhat too small... and then working on fitting into them... and not fitting anymore when the same things become too huge. An awesome feeling!
To be honest I am quite excited for when this happens!! I know what you mean though, I have some absolute favourites that I will be sad to say goodbye too- I am going to try and take some of them in, and keep hold of them!
And - you can absolutely get new pretty things right now! Tons of places where you can get cheap "in between" clothes that look nice. Ross, Target, H&M, Forever 21, etc. For sure, it doesn't make sense to get a ton of variety but you really should get nice things for yourself to celebrate your successes!
The most fun part is... buying nice things somewhat too small... and then working on fitting into them... and not fitting anymore when the same things become too huge. An awesome feeling!
I agree completely! I have been hitting the good sales and buying some things that fit now and some in sizes too small... sometimes exactly the same item in different sizes. At Catherine's and Lane Bryant both, I have gotten $25 off coupons for every $50 I spend... even on sale stuff... for future use. For the $50 pair of pants I just bought I got double coupons to spend later.. so basically they were free. I just cannot shop in thrift stores because they never have anything that fits me. But I have a few nice things to wear now and stuff stashed all over the place in smaller sizes. It's worth it!!! When these get too big I will just bless someone else with the gift of some nice clothes
I have so far gone from a size 20-22 to a 12-14 and had to replace my entire wardrobe and it feels great! Sell your current collection and use the money for skinnier clothing.
Couple of things that I keep in mind while I go down:
-Don't ever buy full price and I concentrate on Thrift stores or super clearance.
-Buy what I love. Don't just buy because it is on sale and in my size.
- Only buy a few neutral pieces in each size and try to make the items stretch throughout at least 2 size drops. Alternate older stuff with newer stuff. I buy something for each size but very few items.
- spend money on things that will last me through any size. Concentrate on accessories. Bags, belts, make up, earrings, necklaces. Remember feet shrink too so don't buy expensive shoes if you can help it.
- I try on a ton of clothing and see what looks best at each size.
I hope this helps. I have a great wardrobe now and love MOST everything that I have. I figured out my style and although my wardrobe is small, it seems to be versatile. I shop 90% at thrift stores and I really love what I am becoming.
- spend money on things that will last me through any size. Concentrate on accessories. Bags, belts, make up, earrings, necklaces. Remember feet shrink too so don't buy expensive shoes if you can help it.
Be careful with certain styles of belts, especially waist belts if that's a place you lose quickly; most of my old waist belts simply won't stay up anymore!
dstalskalot...this may sound like a stupid question...but how did you" find your style"? I haven't got a clue so long have I hidden in black sacks.
I know this wasn't directed towards me, but I felt like I could give advice anyway. Honestly, I don't feel like I have a particular "style", or rather, I don't have a name for it anyway. If I see something I like when I go in a store, I try it on to see how it looks, and if it looks great and it's for the right price, I buy it! Of course, you can always look at fashion magazines for inspiration, or people watch, but my best take on this is to just go in the store and try on whatever draws you in. You could also bring a friend or family member with you when you go shopping so you can get a second opinion on how things look/fit, if that would be of any help. Go shop and get some hot stuff!!
dstalskalot...this may sound like a stupid question...but how did you" find your style"? I haven't got a clue so long have I hidden in black sacks.
The first thing I would recommend is finding your body shape. Different body types will need different things out of their clothing. The second thing is you need to try on a LOT of clothing. If a garment does not work it's OK....try another.
For years I hated clothing. Partly because I was heavy but mostly because I never found what I liked in typical stores. What helped me is that I opened a pinterest account and have been saving photos of things that I like. I shop on line too. Don't be afraid to send something back if you don't like it.
Also buy things you love that can work with other outfits. Versatility is key to have a cohesive style.
Mixed feelings about my old clothes
