Thanks. :)

I bought a pair of jeans today at Macys. They are size 4, really. And I am not a size 4 yet.
Nordstrom also has vanity sizing - I wear Calvin Klein dress size S. Just no way these are true sizes.

Hey Resipoo, I just wanted to respond to you. I send you hugs. I really see your point. I particularly feel you on how rough it is to hear (even if it isn't directed at you) that your size whatever is really a size whatever PLUS TEN. My mom used to say things like this to me when I would celebrate being able to shoe-horn my wubble into a smallish pair of pants, and it scarred guichita.

I also kind of feel like the notion that THERE WILL BE NO CLOTHES FOR THE THIN is not in my feeling of reality.

I recognize that my reality is really different from many women.

In my reality, I am quite poor, too poor to regularly buy new clothes. Any clothes I buy either come from a Buffalo Exchange (where I trade in 10 old things for 3 new ones) or from the St. Vincent de Paul thrift shop.

In my reality, there are SO MANY SMALL SIZED CLOTHES TO BE HAD! For real cheap. Not only are they really cheap, but they are often easy to style into awesome outfits that get me compliments all the time. I like how thrifting makes me more creative. My recent acquisition is a Talbot's tartan skirt from the nineties that I wear high up on my waist; I hemmed it to above my knee, it was a little dowdy before that. It's a size 8. I've got size 12 through zero in my closet. I choose to keep it real and not stress over the number. Eyeball it, try it on! Lots of things don't fit, every now and then something does.

In my reality, the rather slender have more choices of clothing at different price points than do the plus sized.

:)I truly appreciate your words and support. I've been having a really difficult time lately while I work through my divorce and food issues. I'm very committed to losing weight, but I'm rather insecure about weight and clothes sizes. I knew I shouldn't read a thread about "vanity" sizing, but I did and then got triggered.

Thanks agaqin for understanding me.:hug:

My issue with sizing variation (or vanity sizing, or whatever you want to call it) is that it makes shopping so much more complicated for women that it needs to be. I would like things to be simple -- I measure xx size, so I can pull that size off the rack and have some reasonable expectation that it will fit. But the way things are now, you just never know. Even the same vendors can vary sizing over time. I find it frustrating - at any weight.

Everyone deserves to have properly-fitting, flattering clothes. And the number on the "size" label should be irrelevant.

this is true. I just ordered a jumpsuit from Armani Exchange. I haven't had anything from this vendor before... So, I ordered TREE different sizes (8, 6 and 4) and still not sure if it'l fit. They may have true sizes and I should order size 10 or extreme vanity size and I need size 2. And I need to pay shipping to return just not needed stuff.

It is just crazy.

I have some Armani jeans and they are cut narrow.....but they are at least 5 years old, from my skinny days :) I look forward to hearing if they are vanity sized....somehow I think they have not...hmmm

hi! I am not sure that Armani and Armani Exchange are the same brand.
But still cannot answer if they have avnity sizing. I got my packages.

I ordered a jumpsuit. This one:
http://www.armaniexchange.com/produc...y=&from=Search

And a top: http://www.armaniexchange.com/produc...top.do?sortby=

The jumpsuit size 4 is perfect on me but the top - sizes S and M extremely small :dizzy: I havent tried the top size L because it is too long.

Those are really cute things!!

I had a vanity sizing issue at Costco yesterday. I bought a dress, size 8, thinking it may be a tad bit too small... I got home and tried it on, it was HUGE! I went and exchanged it to size 6, and 6 is too big. I need to get it in 4. -- Even though being size 4 sounds flattering but there is no way in h3ll that a woman who is still 7 pounds overweight wears size 4. :crazy:

Oh, you're referring to my size 6 jeans aren't you? :) Yea, I found the same thing. My 'real' size 6 jeans won't get above my upper thighs but the stretch jeans from Target are actually starting to get a tad big! Then I bought another pair of size 6s the same day and they don't have a snowball's chance of fitting me either... bizarre but true. My husband asked me my pants size and I said "i have no earthly idea!".

I'm the same. I'm still considered overweight and have some 4's that I can wear. I also have a pair of 6's that I can just barely button +huge muffin top. Go figure! :dizzy: mostly, though, I seem to be between 4-6.

Target oversizes for everyone. My toddler is 26 months old and a solid 2T everywhere except at Target. He's wearing a 12-18 month target onesie to bed right now and the 24 month t-shirts I got at target are a little too baggy. I couldn't even call it vanity sizing since he is 2 and could care less what I put on him.

I agree. Target sizes are insanely large no matter what department you shop in.

I've been wearing kids sizes for years now, including shirts. In kids t-shirts I'm usually a medium (size 8 or sometimes 10) but I have a t-shirt from Target that is a kid's size 4 and it fits.

Shopping is hard apparently at any size. I choose to look on the bright side.... I may one day actually wear a size 6 which may really be an old size 12 but I will happily wear my pants wrong side out so the tag will show!

Yes, it is a bit ridiculous that my still technically overweight body is sitting here in size 6 capri pants. But, like scarletmeshell says, I'm still pretty damn happy to be wearing them again.

I didn't read the whole thread, but just today I got amazed at how clothes sizing is different! I do not shop at retail stores. I'm a thrift/yard sale kind of girl :) today when I was out I found a bunch of clothes for .25 ea so I started digging! I normally don't look at sizes, instead I hold them up and see if I think they'll fit and if I do, I get them (for a quarter, I'm not too worried about it lol).

Well- of all the clothes I got, I got 3 pairs of shorts. I tried them on and then after looked at the sizes:

Pair 1- Hollister size 1- fit but thighs were snug.
Pair 2- grane (crane?) size 7- huge on me.
Pair 3- Miley Cyrus- size 9- fit but super tight and did not look good at all.

The majority of my bottoms are size 3 and 5. Maybe one day I'll go try clothes on in a normal store and see what size I am according to them. I have no idea if the clothes I usually get are vanity sized, 5 years old, a month old, etc. all I know is I'm obsessed with clothes now and cheap is the only way to feed the addiction lol