It's the natural you, why should it be thought of as a "problem"? (I guess I'm showing my age, that's more a "Our Bodies, Ourselves" approach than is popular today.) If they have such strong opinions about a little thing, do they deserve to see it?
But if it matters to you what the other person thinks of it, ask them. You would be surprised how differently guys and girls sometimes view what is appealing in their partners' bodies. And it's not always the same "secret man thoughts" that the women's magazines claim to know about (because most of those are totally made up by the magazine staff anyway). It can depend on their age too, and what they are habituated to, and even then whether they prefer the familiar or the new and different in their partners.
As a final note, my male friends have also told me that on "those" occasions, not much more sophisticated thought goes through their heads than, OMG SHE'S TAKING HER SHIRT OFF I AM THE LUCKIEST GUY EVER IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD.
Last edited by bronzeager; 04-22-2010 at 04:15 AM.
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