I just bought the book Staging Your Comeback: A Complete Beauty Revival for Women Over 45 by Christopher Hopkins. So far I've gotten partially through the first chapter. OMG! There's emotional work in this! I'm feeling anger, frustration, anxiety, a lot of old memories coming up. I decided to go through the process on
my blog, if you want to follow along with my "progress". Feel free to leave comments, because I want to hear from others who are also struggling with what everyone else tells us we're supposed to look like but still trying to figure out who we really are. I found that I need to do this so that my vision of who I am is clearer to me. It helps me renew my motivation, to have a concrete goal beyond just being thinner or feeling good, since I don't ever recall being/feeling like that ever.