I did check at Addition Elle, but they said they didn't carry 36. I didn't think to ask if they meant that particular store, or the whole chain. I think I will call them anyway - it wouldn't hurt to see if they can be ordered in or if other stores carry them...
It's kind of irritating that the general assumption seems to be big boobs only come with a big band. Most of my weight is on my hips and thighs, but I also have big boobs that are unrelated to being heavy. I've always had too-big boobs, even when I was thin.
I'm going to go check what brands The Bay stocks, maybe I can contact the manufacturers and see what sizes they make, and take that info to the store.
That figleaves place looks neat too, but mail order and my boobs don't mix
BP