Basically, when I lost, I struggled with an extremely distorted body image. Some days I would see myself as very skinny, sometimes as extremely fat. I had no perception of what I looked like any more. I decided that I needed to take some time and let my mental image settle before I lost more. What if it was false "mental fatness" triggering me to lose? I strongly feel that taking the time to wrap my head around my weight loss was critical in keeping myself healthy, mentally and physically.
I considered doing it sooner and secretly as well, but then began to grow worried that between my rapidly wavering mental image and my desire to hide what I was doing, I was falling into some disordered eating patterns. Ultimately, I decided to wait.
My head is in place now and I see myself how I really am, and I no longer feel the compulsion to hide what I'm doing or to lose for the wrong reasons. So, if other folks are coming from the same place as me, I will ultimately recommend the same thing.

And as one goal-oriented person to another, I felt lost when I was done losing...but I started setting goals for other things (running, # of pushups, writing, etc.) and found that I could fill that void again. Was really disorienting for a couple months after I stopped, though!
That transition from weight loss to maintenance is a really crazy mindgame sometimes...

) but also I see that, for me, as vanity. However, my DH, BFF and brother all tell me that my new goal is unreasonable and that I am "Too thin". I appreciate their input, but have a BMI of 23, which although normal, is on the higher end.