Starting to feel real
Even though it's taken me 2 years to get to goal, on some level it hasn't sunk in yet. I think I hit a milestone-of-sorts today.
When the weather is inclement, or just colder than I feel like dealing with, I exercise by walking around a large discount store for a little over half an hour. I generally buy something so I don't feel like a total dork.
Anyway, today I got the urge to try on pants. I've been wearing mainly very old 18/20's that are somewhat big on me. I've bought a couple of shirts and sweaters that are 8/10 but thought I might be a size bigger on the bottom because my waist is still a bit large.
I randomly picked Faded Glory jeans in a 10 and a 12. I tried on the 12 first, and it was noticeably loose. But the 10 fit me perfectly. Didn't have to pull it tight, legs and backside kind of flattering, and only the tiniest bit of muffin-top.
I reacted a bit oddly--mainly head-shaking disbelief. The evidence keeps piling up that I'm a medium-sized woman, so I guess it's time to start believing it.
I didn't buy the jeans because I need to put some thought into what sort of wardrobe I want to have. I've never really had a sense of style (even when I was this size in my twenties), and I'm not sure if I'm interested in developing one or not. I could continue to wear black or blue bottoms, pullover tops, and no accessories, or I could try to become fashionable. I've already read a couple of interesting threads in the "Looking Good" forum that make me feel like a visitor from another planet--I know one place to go if I need suggestions.
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