Thank you all, I have read every post and to say I am touched and comforted barely conveys the sentiment. Things are getting better, just the odd weepy moment now and then.
Having the wedding a week from Saturday has been a wonderful distraction.
The dress was a tiny bit large (we bought it thinking I might be/get pregnant) so I'm actually about 5 lbs up right now, hoping to fill it out a little!
I suppose it's a good thing, if things were different, I'd probably be POP for weeks trying to be as slim as possible, this wedding is going to be more the real me!