Hi Lynn and of course you "belong" here! Everyone who wants to keep weight off belongs here, no matter where you are in your weight loss journey! So stick around!
I think you're wise to ignore the on-line calculators. It's probably coincidence or sheer luck if they work for anyone - they're usually pretty far off from reality.
I'd say the maintenance calories I've seen here at 3FC range from 1200 - 2100 or so. We're all so different! I'm pretty close to your height and weight and I maintain at 1400 - 1600 calories with some pretty intense daily exercise. But I'm older (52) and hypothyroid, so that may skew me downward more than you.
I'm sure others will chime in with their experiences!
