Welcome to the most awesome forums ever!!!!
I went off my met and am only on Yasmin currently. There really was never a huge difference in my PCOS symptoms when I was on the met, but then every woman is different.
I have Celiac disease and actually found some symptoms I blamed on Diabetes and PCOS disappeared when I removed wheat and gluten from my diet. I eat a vegetarian diet, but add in some eggs for breakfast once in a while. I haven't been counting calories, but I don't eat junk food or high carb food much. I just eat slow and make sure I have lots of low calorie fiber. I'll start counting calories some day.
I started out at 310 and after a few times of being stuck at a weight and learning that I had to cut out wheat, I'm back at losing slowly again.
Adding more fruits and veggies and fiber to my diet seemed to really be the key with PCOS. Even though the fruits have carbs, they really help regulate my blood sugar, like when I share an apple with my bf or have a couple pieces of dried fruit and some water as one of my many little snacks during the day.
Break up your meals into many small ones during the day. Make your body think food is in abundance and make sure your exercise routine is a little bit varied. Basically I make sure I eat healthy and trick my body into burning off the fat. When eating fewer meals and skipping meals, my body thought it was in starvation mode and stored every single thing it could. Also, don't drink your calories. No sodas and limit fruit juice to a teeeeeensy glass if you must have it. Eat your fruit, not drink it. It will make you feel fuller and last longer!
I wish you good luck, you will hopefully find what methods work for your body and the weight will come off. It is hard when fighting PCOS, but it can be done. When you need inspiration or are feeling frustrated, come here and check out the before and after pictures and read the posts. So many others are going through the same issues. This is definitely the right place for you to be! Just don't give up!