Welcome to 3FC Tazfreak!
You're going to love this website, it's a wealth of info & support.
You definitely have the right way of thinking. This is a way of life, not a temporary thing.
There are so many different plans out there. Check out all the forums within, they have different plans. Calorie counters, low carb, South Beach, WW, Sonoma, and so many others. Read about the different plans, pick one you can see yourself doing for the rest of your life.
I'd also suggest you read the maintenance forum. There is a lot of inspiration on that forum as well as information and support.
Whatever you decide do, we're all in it togther. Everyone here is so nice and you'll get plenty of support.
Best of luck to you, and if you need help, just ask!