Hi - I am sorry you and your family are not speaking
Well I have tried Atkins (religiously read the book and everything) and it made me ill, I got muscle cramps and hardly lost any weight. But I do know it works for lots of people (have seen the photos and success stories) just didnt work for me. And I have tried weight watchers. And it just took sooooo long to get anywhere, and it was so easy to cheat. I needed something that worked quite quickly and suited my metabolism, was balanced (you know not eating boiled eggs all day or something) and had clear guidelines and rules so I wasnt as tempted to cheat
My sister in law lost 27 kilos in 6 months so I asked her what she was doing. Sureslim hasnt been in New Zealand more than a couple of years. Its in Australia, and the UK and Canada (I think)
They take a blood test - and test everything - so the pick up stuff you might not know about Which is a blessing in disguise I suppose. But after checking your personal choleserol levels, liver function, hormones and I cant recall what else, they tailor your eating plan to fit your bio-data. You weigh in weekly and have a consultant. So everyone on sureslim has a different diet - although there are some common factors.
I have NEVER lost more than a couple of kilos on any kind of a plan.
But on the 1st of February I started my eating plan - at 85.5 kg and today I am 77.9 . So that is 7.6 kilos in under 4 weeks. Which is exciting - but what is more exciting is that I feel so different. I have energy, loads of it. I dont have the ups and downs of sugar highs that I used to. And I just feel better. The fact that my clothes are getting baggier is a bonus.
I also find the plan really easy to do, so its doable long term. If I was hungry all the time or eating weird things, or disliked my food then I could not sustain this.
Anyway - I am sure it isnt for everyone, but it is working for me.
Here is a typical day's food for me
Breakfast: Yoghurt, and fruit + a seed muesli (sesame seeds, linseeds, pumpkin seeds and sunflower seeds)
Lunch: Grilled steak and a big green salad
Dinner: 3 mini pizzas, and steamed vegetables (brocolli, cauliflower, carrot) and desert a large crunchy apple.
The downside of sureslim is it is expensive to join. Although they let you pay the plan off over a year.