Hello Guys **trigger warning**
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Hi!
For years I have "stalked" the 3FatChicks message boards, gaining good advice and identifying with others the struggles of dealing weight. I first off want to thank everyone for everything they have shared and I felt it was time for
me to do the same.
I have been overweight ever since I was about 10 years old. I unfortunately had been molested by six people up that point. My mom was an on again off again drug addict and sold me several times for money.
At the age of 10 when I was just starting to take notice of my body she sold me one final time to her drug dealer where his teenage son and three friends gang raped me. I was 5' 6" and 120lb at the time and within a year and a half gained almost 100lbs. By then abusers had totaled to 10. Because of this I suffered from depression, C-PTSD (complex post traumatic stress disorder) and had issues with cutting and suicide attempts.
Right now I am 346lbs. I have tried a lot of things and after much consideration I have decided on having the Lapband surgery. I am ready to finally tackle this last major issue I have and am currently dealing with the emotional and psychological issues now I am ready to deal with the physical.
I am currently married to a great guy who has been there for me during all of this and we have three children, I have gotten my life completely on track, started a business and am very happy (still in therapy lol but waaaay better) but during all of this I ended up gaining a lot more weight.
I wanted to join this group because I have watched so many of you offer such awesome support to one another and I would like to be a part of this amazing group. I needed support to get through all that mess from before and I know I will need it for this as well.
I do not know what the future holds but I am actually excited to finally take control of this part my life the way I have done with the other issues I have dealt with. My orientation is this Friday!
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
Sincerely,
V.F.
-I love myself for who I am today
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