Hey Sandi, welcome here!!! And congrats on making a decision to change! Our stats are pretty darn close and my kids are 14, 11, and 9

. I have also Try "dieting" probably 100's of times over the years. And never made it out of the 190's. I started my lifestyle change June 3. I downloaded a calorie tracking app with a lot of success, I am finally aware of what I consume. Also visiting this sit has been a GREAT motivator. I have lost my first 10lbs already, and I have never been so motivated--- its a great feeling!!!
~Best of luck on your journey!!!