Indeed we are all in it together! Here's some friendly advice, based on what I did when I joined:
*Decide on a diet, whether it be weight watchers or calorie counting.
*Keep a log of what you've eaten and what the food is worth point-wise or calorie-wise.
*Find some good threads that motivate you. I recommend the goal and mini-goal threads

*Post a few responses so you can meet the post requirement and get your signature in a few weeks. I was on the edge of my seat waiting for mine!
*Decide on a healthy and reasonable goal weight.
*Have fun, and when you're not having fun, get the support you need to feel better. Everyone here is awesome and there's no judging. Keep going sister!