[BlackBarbieKiss125]

I have been an observer of this forum for a few years, it is awesome to finally take the leap!

I am a 20 something girl who never realized how much the outside world affected my weight, I have gone from anywhere between 160 to 257 (mostly family issues) and not really realize it. I also never really realized how much friends jealously, not being competition meant to me. Being the underdog has it's benifits. And now I am tiredd of being the supportive role and want to actually get attention for myself.

I hope losing weight will find me a husband, I know that is not politically correct and I will have people jumping down my throat but that is the truth and it is easier to date when you are thin.

Thank you for reading and I hope to meet you guys in the weeks to come.

[Stephanie987]

Welcome!
I can understand where you are coming from, though I am a firm believer in that the right person will find you and accept you for who you are,
I hope to see you around here to get to know you and wish you luck on your journey