Hi Aleara! I have a 2 1/2 year old little boy, and he helped me go from about 190 lbs, or 86 kg, up to 231, or 104 kg
I started pushing for my health in July of last year, and so far so good!!
I find that seeing other people's success, reading their stories, finding friends, all really help make the process easier and more realistic. It's really overwhelming to think about how much there is to lose unless you think of it as the start of a changed life. I wish you all the very best, and I am always looking for friends!