WELCOME!!! You'll find a great bunch of people here with incredible stories and amazing ideas. I also tried calorie counting because it's what works for my lifestyle. The important thing is to find something/a plan that you can stick with long term. A lot of the fads are great for a few weeks but can you really survive on the eating plan for the rest of your life?
For exercising, I use Walk Away the Pounds by Leslie Sansone which can be modified for almost anything. Not a lot of impact but still a great workout! Remember, one day at a time, one meal at a time, one pound at a time. Cheering you on to goal