Hi, I stumbled onto this site and thought well I need as much support as I can muster. I am 40 kilos overweight- I figure that is approx 100lbs. I am nearing fifty, a single parent who has used food for the past ten years to deal with stress. My sons are 13 and 15 and I am tired of being the fat mother in the group. Further whilst I am healthy I know that I am playing russian roulette and as someone said to me the other day , the ball is in my court. So here goes!