I have been feeling so depressed lately and i just cant seem to get out of this slump....The other day I was out with friends and a lady asked me when the baby was due... FYI I"M NOT PREGNANT! This has happened twice now and it really hurts I feel like my boyfriend should be with some one prettier and i always feel like everyone is looking at me like i'm fat... just for once i want to feel pretty... I want to make people jealous not wonder when im due :'(

Hi Kindra, I really like your picture- "someday...I'll be a flower..." Thank you for reminding me that even though someday everyone will see the outer flower that I want to be, there are good and "flowerish" things about the inside of me that nobody sees, that I forget about when I'm also feeling fat and wondering the same things about my husband.... I'll start with that! Remember the good things about you, too!

Hey Kindra! Don't beat yourself up about what others say. I know that what people say can really hurt. Comments from others really dont help when you're already down about stuff. don't know if you've seen or heard of Legally Blonde the Musical but theres a song called "Postive"! It's definitely a song that I would recommend for a quick 'pick you up'. Try and stay positive! Look at the weight youve lost and be proud! x