[kanaria]

I've been hefty all my life.
My self concept is deplorable, I place absolutely no value on myself whatsoever.
People have judged me and been disgusted by me, even since kindergarten. Being told you're undesirable from such a young age makes you really believe it.
I hate shopping because I can never find anything in my size, and anything I do find is so hideous that it would make better upholstery for a couch.


But you know what, man?
I'm done with all that crap.
I'm ready to change my life, I just don't know where to start.
Currently at age 20, I weigh about 340.
Ideally, I want to drop about half of me.
I would be thrilled to bits to get below 300, even.
I mean, I would be smokin' hot if I lost my extra weight... I just need some help and encouragement along the way.

This seems like a friendly little community.
I hope to find a warm, accepting home here. <3

[P H A T]

Im a newbie here too & trust me; I understand what you're going through. I wish you luck in youre new endevor

[Suzie Parker]

Hi and welcome to the forum!

I'm so glad that you are positive and that you are ready for change. That is the first step.

I'm going to join weight watchers tomorrow. I've seen in their magazines that the members have great success in losing and maintaining their weight loss. Joining such a weight loss club may work for you too.

I think the motivation and the accountability factor of such clubs may mean the difference.

Good luck with everything. Just try and stay motivated like that and you will succeed.

[MzJuicyD]

Awww your story brought tears to my eyes because its a way a lot of us on here have felt. I commend you on taking the first step,which is deciding to make a positive change. I recommend having a series of "mini" goals that will lead up till your ultimate goal. I think you will do GREAT! Welcome to 3fc!

[patchworkpenguin]

Welcome Kanaria, Glad to have you join us. My advice is to look for a Support group, Chat, or Challange to join; small groups make it easier to get connected. Most sub-forums have groups covering almost every need, find one that inspires or motivates you and just post to join.