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Old 02-01-2009, 10:57 AM   #1  
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Hi my name is Cassie. I have been trying for many years to lose weight without any success. I have tried all the fad diets with little success. I am hoping to find another alternative that will help me with my problem. If anyone has any suggestions, please let me know. I am 50+ years old and desperate to better my health. I am very limited on the exercises that I can do due to my weight but I am willing to try anything at this point to better my situation.
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Old 02-01-2009, 11:07 AM   #2  
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Jak, there is help and support here--best of all, answers too. If you really want this, you can make it happen. There is a wide range of women here all with differing circumstances--physically, mentally, socioeconomically, etc. We must all find our own way on the path but we are all on this path together. Welcome. You can do this. It is worth it. Surf around the site and make yourself comfortable. You don't need the fads or really anything special. All you need to bring to the table is your commitment. I am glad you are here. Coming forward is the first step and you have just done that!
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Old 02-01-2009, 11:17 AM   #3  
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I'm another 50+
For me, calorie counting and exercise really worked. I try to eat "clean" (lots of whole foods and a minimal amount of super-processed foods), drink lots of water and get a moderate amount of exercise every day. Even a short walk a few times a day can really do the trick. Some light handweights can really help too. Don't think that you need to do excessive workouts, those little doable steps do really add up!

This lifestyle change has really done the trick. And - it is FREE! No more "diets" for this chickie, ever again.

Coming here to 3FC often has helped me be accountable, and has given me so much insight, support, and help along the way. I highly recommend visiting daily

I look forward to reading of your progress - feel free to come join us in the 50+ forum. I post on the "Active Folk over 50" Thread.

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Old 02-01-2009, 11:36 AM   #4  
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Welcome Jak! I'm not dieting..am listening to my stomach of when to eat..its working for me, since I lost 21 Lbs so far!! This take patience and the key is to keep busy. Maybe antidiet method may help you.Whatever you decide, you can do this..Best of luck with your efforts!! ((((hugs)))

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Old 02-01-2009, 11:42 AM   #5  
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TRY CALORIE COUNTING~VERY EASY TO DO AND FREE.

A very helpful site for calorie counters Is www.freedieting.com
(I use the left hand side of this page calculators ect)
This is a good website for all diet types check it out.

I ALWAYS POST THE BELOW INFORMATION FOR NEW PEOPLE LOOKING FOR A WAY TO LOSE WEIGHT.



Weight management may be difficult to achieve, but it certainly is not difficult to understand. When you consume food or drink, you consume calories. Your body burns calories to function, burning significantly more calories when you exercise. If you consume more calories than you burn, you gain weight. If you consume fewer calories than you burn, you lose weight.
Because your body requires energy simply to stay alive, you burn calories even when you are not exercising. In fact, you burn calories directly in proportion to your body weight. On average, a male burns 11 calories per day per pound of body weight. The average female burns 10 calories per day per pound of body weight. These figures are just averages. Some people will be higher or lower, since everyone's metabolism is a little different. Fitness Record allows you to specify the value which is appropriate for you. If you don't know, it is suggested that you start by using the average value for your gender.
For example, if John weighs 150 pounds, he burns approximately 150 x 11 = 1,650 calories per day. If he exercises, he will burn additional calories on top of that, depending on the exercise activity. However, if he does not exercise, he must eat 1,650 calories per day, just to maintain his body weight. If he eats more, he will gain weight. If he eats less, he'll lose weight.
For the purpose of calculating expected weight gain/loss, one pound is 3,500 calories. Each time you consume an extra 3,500 calories more than you burn, you will gain a pound. For example, Jane weighs 130 pounds, never exercises, and eats exactly 1,400 calories every day. Her metabolism is burning 1,300 calories per day, so she are consuming an extra 100 calories each day. If she does this indefinitely, she will gain a pound in 35 days, since 35 * 100 = 3,500.
Fitness Record uses another term, called Behavioral Weight. The idea is that over the long term, your weight is determined by your behaviors, and is best illustrated by example. Consider Jane above, who eats 1,400 calories per day. After 35 days of this behavior, she will weigh 131, instead of 130. This means her metabolism will burn slightly more calories than before. If she continues to eat 1,400 calories every day, she will continue to gain weight, but at a slightly slower pace. Eventually, she will weigh 140, at which time her metabolism will be burning 1,400 calories every day. At this point, she will stop gaining weight, since she is consuming the same number of calories that she burns. Therefore, by eating 1,400 calories in a day, Jane is behaving like a 140 pound person. Her "behavioral weight" is 140.
Exercise contributes to your calories burned. If Jane were to exercise, burning an additional 100 calories each day, then her calories burned would be in balance with her calories consumed. She could eat 1,400 calories per day, exercise 100 calories per day, and continue to way 130 indefinitely.
You may now be asking, "Why can't I just eat low fat foods?" You can eat whatever you want. But, non-fat foods can still have calories. Check the food label to find out if eating the non-fat version of a food is really saving you any calories -- sometimes it's not. Many programs recommend moderating your dietary fat intake, and that is obviously good advice. Eating low-fat foods happens to be an excellent guideline for keeping your calorie intake low. In addition, moderating your dietary fat intake may contribute to your health in other ways. However, it will not alter the mathematics of weight management -- you still have to eat fewer calories than you burn if you want to lose weight.
The problem with the way the human body works is that calories counting is tedious and difficult. Most weight-loss programs, as well as the so-called "fad diets", focus on other guidelines which are simpler to follow than calorie counting. However, none of these guidelines alter the underlying principles of weight management.

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Old 02-01-2009, 12:02 PM   #6  
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Ladies, I just want to say that I think what all of you are saying it the absolute truth. Calorie counting and moving more works. It's free, it educates you about food, portions, etc., it doesn't rely on outside sources (such as meal delivery or fancy gym memberships/trainers) and everyone can do it. I also focus on whole foods. I won't ever diet again.
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I agree with the above.

jakyky03: When I started in August, I decided to not call this a diet. Diet seems temporary to me. This is my new healthy way to live. I have been counting calories, eating healthy foods within that. I have been writing down everything that goes into my mouth and all the exercise I do in a notebook. I try to exercise 5 days a week. I started out slow and have intensified my workouts as I have lost more. You can do it!! I have lost 50 lbs since August. I never thought it was possible but I just had to keep focused. I think planning and focus are key. It sounds corny...but...one step at a time. Just keep those steps going forward.

So important: Join in on a couple of threads and keep active here!!! It helps soooo much!

All my best to you!!!
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Old 02-02-2009, 11:01 AM   #8  
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Welcome Cassie! Be sure to check out the 50 something subforum too! I'm glad you're here!
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