Hey Weavermom -
Yep...we need some more info! What are you eating, how much of it, what your typical day looks like food and exercise-wise, etc. That'll enable us to give you much better suggestions.
Otherwise, look around here - we have forums by age range, amount to lose, eating plan, and just about anything else you can think of. Find a spot or several, settle in, and keep posting.
Can't wait to get to know you better!