Hi Tink!
Welcome!
I'm sorry that your friends cannot be happy for you, but some people tend to be in the "misery loves company" mindset! Once you were not as fat and miserable as they still probably are, you became the "traitor" to the relationship.
People can be this way about a number of things. When I first began dating my future husband-to-be back in seventh grade, my "best friend" got very angry at me. I wasn't spending all my time with her anymore, and she was NOT happy! At one point she actually gave me an ultimatum -it was HER or HIM! Can you believe that? She did not have a boyfriend at the time, and she didn't want ME to have one either!
Needless to say, you KNOW which one I chose! As the years went on. she would stick like glue to one "friend" after another. As the girls got boyfriends, she would drop them and give them the "You are invisible to me" treatment. I saw her a couple months ago after not having seen her for over THIRTY YEARS! I went up to her and said, "HI! How are you?" She looked at me, gave a smirky look and walked RIGHT PAST ME! Can you believe it?
I hope that YOUR friends won't be like my "friend" was, but if they are -GET NEW FRIENDS! Above all, don't let anyone or anything cause you to put even one tiny bite in your mouth. Eat because you are hungry and you know that the food you are eating is good and healthy for you. LOVE YOURSELF!
Stick around here! There are lots of great people who will encourage you instead of discourage you!
Cheryl