Hello, ladies. Glad to see you here, MaDukes!
I have found that it's helpful to change the way I think about losing weight and keeping it off. In the past, I would diet until I got to my goal, and then once I reached the goal, I would stop thinking about how I was eating and go back to my "normal" habits. I don't have to tell you what happened next.
I've realized that for me to lose and keep the weight off, my life with food is never going to be "normal" again--I can't go back to the old way that I was eating and expect to get different results. What that means is that I'll always have to pay attention to what I'm eating.
MaDukes, it's always easier to start tomorrow. So, start today! Right now! Even if it's the middle of the day! You can always make choices to eat better foods and to get some activity into your day--even just a short walk.
Good luck to you! Check out the other forums and you'll read some really remarkable stories.
Jay