evemomma, what a difference - in attitude especially! In the second picture you are posing proudly! Likely if you had known he was taking your picture in the first one, you would have objected, or at least put up a fuss! Maybe that's why he snuck it of you. Big change in self confidence!
ps - you gals don't worry about the thigh gap, lol. Not usually an attainable goal, or even a goal worth having