You are definitely not allow. Although I am good at meeting my deadlines and multi- tasking, I am on here way too much. But this site and diet has made me happier and more productive, so that is good for my job!

shhhh, I'm on right now and probably shouldn't be...
I obsess too, writing everything down, planning meals, reading everyone's successes and failures. I love encouraging people, venting and laughing with everyone. It’s a virtual connection/family. We all are the only ones what really know what we are going through, even if we do have a supportive family. I think these new obsessions are positive and replace our old food habits/obsessions. It’s our new purpose and keeps us busy.
Side note, just have to tell someone (okay, just all of you!)…Yesterday my boyfriend saw my signature bar and he saw my starting weight…I think he was surprised I had weighed that much. He is the sweetest guy ever (been together over 8 ½ years), but I was still mortified. I threatened him not to ever tell anyone or judge me. Lol.
Oh well, I will work on my self esteem and paranoia. At least I know I will never be that weight again!