I feel like it is probably OK for me to post here since I'm just about to WI 12... that makes 3 months, right?
Here's my question-- I'm headed out of town for a spa retreat on June 9th. Just me... I was originally planning to make it a 'girls' weekend', but decided to just focus on myself. I feel like since having my 2 daughters all I really do is focus on them and my DH. I do work full time, but I realized a month or so ago that I no longer have any hobbies. (I digress...)
So I talked with my coach and I'm thinking of starting the process of phasing off. I don't feel like I am really at my 'goal', but I'm wondering if I should get on with life for a while, see what I've learned and then figure out if I want to get back on Phase 1 to get a little smaller.
If I plan to get to maintenance by my trip I'll need to go to phase 2 next week (the 12th) and stay there for 2 weeks and then go to phase 3 for the 2 weeks until my trip.
I guess my 'question' is whether this makes sense in the long run. This isn't about getting off program to go on a trip, it is really about trying to get to the point where I can manage my weight 'on my own' again. Do I sound delusional? I think Juice's comments yesterday hit home for me. Part of me thinks I need to really focus on the number (why is her goal lower than mine when we're the same height? wouldn't I be hotter if I lost another 20 lbs??) while the other part of me is so pleased with where I am and the real possibility that phases 2 and 3 might result in even more lost.
What do you think? I need some advice from some seasoned folks...