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Originally Posted by jen1125
So lets see. Do any of you sell stuff by home parties? You know like tupperware, party lite, etc? Well, I do. I sell jewelry and if none of you sell, I'm sure you've at least been to parties right? Well, these parties are KILLING ME! My hostesses make tons of food and then get offended when I don't eat it. Now I had been doing alright at my parties so far since starting the diet. Most of my hostesses were cool about it, although a little pushy to get me to eat. I hadn't really cheated at them either. I had one party where she had made something I had never heard of before so I tried 1 little bite and it was no big deal. Well today I went with my sister, who just joined my team, to her first party. The hostess was one of my sister's good friends whom I had only met a couple of times. She made these little crescent roll pinwheel sandwiches I had never seen before, and since I do a lot of parties myself wanted to try one to see if I wanted to add it to my party recipe collection. I figured 1 little sandwich would be fine, I mean they are no bigger then a cookie. OMG I couldn't stop eating the darn things. I had 9 of them
Honestly what is my problem this week. Its like the satan of fatness has possessed me and is destroying all my efforts for the last 5 weeks!! I have completely fallen off the wagon with this one and was then ran over by it!
So tell me, because I have 6 more parties coming up, and one meeting. If anyone has a home party business, how on earth are you getting thru them on this diet???
Oh jen,
my heart goes out to you, I know how you feel, because I have dabbled in at home businesses in the past when I was on atkins in the past and I know that it is NOT that the food is just there but that there is a pressure for You to eat the goodies that the hostess has prepared and is usually very proud of and its usually the CREAM OF THE CROP.
So, I would think, you might now, be feeling very guilty and down on yourself and feeling defeated and like youve ruined everything, BUT you haven't, you have actually just gone through a character building experience. NOW all you have to do is realize what you have to do to ensure you have a better more successful business AND diet experience at your next shows.
Like for one, If you are dieing to try something- Go ahead and get the recipe - especially if people are giving excellent feed back- DO NOT give yourself the excuse that you needed to try it to see if you needed to add it to your reciipes!
Also, if you are getting alot of pressure from the hostess, tell her your full but BEG HER to make you a take home tray of all the tasty treats and BRING THEM HOME TO YOUR TWINS YAY!! and hopefully that will fend her off and create happy babies- if the hostess will not stop--- you can always say you are allergic to something in the tasty treats (if you are absolutely desperate- and they are being pushy- it always worked for me) I do not like lying AT ALL but I also do not appreciate being pressured to do something against my will- so I see it as self preservation.
And Remember EAT BEFORE YOU GO! DO NOT GO HUNGRY! AND JUST IN CASE- bring an extra packet and a can of diet rite or something you can have to not feel deprived. You need to be PREPARED! Have your IP FIRST AID KIT because you are going into battle and you don't want any wounds or casualities! But remember- the more successes and victories you have the more confident you will get and the easier it will be and before you know it you will not have any problems at all with your home business problems. Just remember to put the past behind you, make a plan to be succsessful the next time around (how you are going to do things differently), and prepare, prepare, prepare! AND YOU WILL DO FINE I KNOW IT! YOU ARE A STRONG MOTHER OF TWIN BOYS! YOU CAN DO THIS! NO PINWHEELS WILL KEEP YOU DOWN!!