I am loving this!!!! I too have a mindset that hasn't been helping me. I am getting older now, 35 and have been overweight since 5. Every time I get under 200 I freeze and I end up gaining to get back over 200. Things start changing all around me when I start looking 'normal'. It's just all weird. Better, but for me sorta worse.
Thanks for letting me know it isn't just me who has had these mental obstacles. And you are so right. Lately I've begun to believe that nothing is going to stop me. I have to keep that mindset. I have to not care if I have more wrinkles, etc. I have to not care. And sooo I am there now. I don't care. I want to wear cuter shoes. I'm flatfooted and my feet hurt when I'm heavy so I wear tennis shoes all the time. So cute shoes are in my future now!
Thanks for sharing and I WILL be reading more as well!!!
Hugs, Selina