Thanks Palestrina, i do hope it's active, as i am probably doing my boyfriend's head in with all my IE talk lately

I need an outlet to let out my excitement! Haha.
The last 3 days i have waited until i am 100% sure i am feeling real hunger before i eat. I have realised now that if i'm not sure, i am not truly hungry. It's very obvious when i am ready to eat! I was definitely eating because of mouth hunger for most of my life, i believe.
Today I got hungry at about 10am, and i fancied porridge but also pastries. I made some porridge and bought a vanilla cream crown. I ate half of both and for the first time, stopped slightly before i was full. I have been leaving myself a tiny bit too full after my meals so it was great to stop when i was satisfied instead of going that 1 or 2 bites too far! I enjoyed not having any discomfort in my stomach.
It took until 2pm for me to be hungry again, and i made the most amazing sandwich. We have the luxury of freedom with break times at my work, so i have access to plenty of shops and food places so i can get just what i crave. I had chilli king prawns on warm, buttered olive bread and marie rose sauce. It was, genuinely, the best sandwich i have made myself, and i even left a bite as i was full. It was only a small sandwich to begin with, too. I definitely get full way faster than i had anticipated.
I will probably eat once more today now, and i know i won't have had more than about 1300 calories overall (I'm still not past quickly adding them up in my head, but only after i have eaten). And it took zero restriction, overthinking, stress or effort. I am so happy
Palestrina, you are correct when you say it is life changing. 2 weeks ago i was extremely down, thinking i would have to count calories for life as i just couldn't be trusted around food. So glad i came across forums like this one! The Overfed Head was a great, great read, too.