You guys are cracking me up and making me feel better
nitrus - oh trust me, I am definitely trying to exercise that guy from my mind!! Although then I usually just think that the more I get in shape the more I can rub it in his face if I ever see him again... Gotta stop the thinking about him part and just be happy for the me part
Ambrosia - you know there's a reason why time is a 4 letter word.... Haha
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Is food cheating on me?
Why doesn't food call?
What does food see in her that it doesn't see in me?
Does food think I'm too needy?
Is the elliptical upset with me because I cut our workout date short?
I wonder if my running shoes like me?
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Curvy - this cracked me up!!! I seriously laughed out loud!
I agree with the rest of you that because getting over someone involves things outside of our control it presents a unique challenge vs. weight loss.
jm474 - so far you're the only one to answer the other way!
Chickieboom - I can sort of relate. Things were going amazingly well with my guy until out of the blue he said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship, and oh how he wishes he met me later when he was, and maybe if I don't hate him we could try again sometime in the future. Of course I'm not waiting for him, but the thing I find hard is that up until that point he didn't do anything jerky! So there was nothing bad to curtail my warm fuzzy feelings for him...aside from the fact that he didn't want to date me anymore. Heh.
If only we had a big fight, or he did something bad...maybe it'd be easier to move on. I'm sorry you're dealing with all the uncertainty.
Oh well, I've been inspired by this thread and I've deleted all our texts from my phone so I can no longer re-read them thinking "See, we were really good together!" And I've also defriended him on Facebook. Yikes. I think I just need him waaaaaaay out of sight to be out of mind.