Originally Posted by Dane74 (Post 4735123)

On the other side of the fence (being male), my number one "free pass" is, and has always been, Marisa Tomei. My wife is cool with it, of course, as "it will never happen". But then a while back I was involved with creating a product that got popular in celebrity circles. And what do you know, there I am at an event where Marisa Tomei is as well. I looked at my wife and said: "Free Pass Time!"... she smiled and said: "Go for it, honey."
Of course nothing happened. I didn't even say as much as "hello" to her. I'm fortunately sane enough to know that I have no business making any kind of move on a woman like her... not that I would anyway.

Originally Posted by joefla70 (Post 4741166)

I agree, to an extent, that as long as it doesn't hurt anybody, its ok. The thing I wonder about is the "hours" spent looking at pictures online. Is this done while your husband is in a different room watching TV or on the computer? Or do you do this alone? The only reason I ask is because I would feel pretty bad knowing that my wife was spending hours of her time on the internet obsessing over men -- instead of spending that time with me. And I suspect she'd feel the same way if I were doing that.

Originally Posted by elvislover324 (Post 4741187)

We spend part of our time together at night sitting on the sofa each with our laptops on the opposite sofa-arms. The middle cushion is where our legs overlap each other and our hands meet when we aren't typing. So romantic!! (And I don't look at men online like that, I never saw a woman for his "oogling" on his screen I don't think.) Now if we were going to check out hot men or hot women online TOGETHER, that's a whole other story. ;)

Originally Posted by joefla70 (Post 4741196)

LOL. I have a feeling that all things being equal, women would be far more open to checking out hot women than men would be open to checking out hot men!

Originally Posted by Angelic Fruitcake (Post 4741233)

Two words: George. Clooney.

Originally Posted by Lunula (Post 4741351)

I think others have summed up my opinion pretty well already - crushes at any age are fine, healthy and normal - it's those borderline stalkers that are the issue!!

I just turned 42 (OMG!!!) and I've had a crush on Aaron Rodgers for a couple years now. Perhaps that is my undying love for the Packers manifesting itself in an actual man, I dunno, I just think he's darling. :)

Originally Posted by joefla70 (Post 4741354)

I suspect that there are a lot of men in Wisconsin that have a man-crush on him too! ;)

Originally Posted by elvislover324 (Post 4741361)

So that's the man I should try to get my husband to look at tonight? ;)

Originally Posted by joefla70 (Post 4741385)

Well, that depends... Do you live in Wisconsin and/or is your husband a Green Bay Packers fanatic?