Whew whew harrison ford is pretty smokin!

Theo-

Those guys are smokin' hot in that photo!! :cool:

My latest crush is Bradley Cooper!! I had a dream about him and he is my crush! Before that it was Matt Damon and Tobey Maguire, they are both so handsome. Sigh, but they are all celebrities and taken. I can dream about them though and they can be my eye candy on magazines and TV...

I'm 36, and my celeb crushes are Colin Firth, I loved him in those leather pants in What a Girl Wants; and Anthony Stewart Head (had a huge crush on him since the Taster's Choice commercials in the 80s, and then even more so on Buffy).

My boyfriend and I push the thing even farther LOL

We have a Top 5 ''Celebrities people you'd be allowed to have intercourse with if you ever meet them'' ;)

Let's be clear, we both know this will never EVER happen! But we talk about it in a really open way, it really brought up fun conversation to know that the other finds attractive or not.

It also leads to fun conversation, for example ;

*watching a movie*
- The actress is really pretty! I think I'd put her in my Top 5.
- ... what, her!?? YOU GOTTA BE KIDDING MEEE (.. if it is an actress I don't like :P)

OR

*watching a movie*
- The actress is really pretty! I think I'd put her in my Top 5.
- Okay, who are you swapping her for? Natalie Portman?
- No, come on, I can't do that to Natalie!!!!! Argh, this is hard!

LOL, glad to see I'm not alone on this :lol:

Of course, the jealousy bit for me is more the cheerful "aww, she's lucky" kind, not the "I wanna take her down and destroy her!:devil: " kind...Now that would scare me :D

Crushes right now are Adam Copeland (better known as retired WWE superstar Edge) and Ty Burrell from Modern Family. :love: It's always older guys...always :lol:

At 27, I am still crushing on celebrities & musicians! I still remember my very first celeb crush on Chris O'Donnell, and he is still SO cute! Then I crushed on various Backstreet Boys for the next several years, lol.

My current crushes, which I didn't realize were so numerous, include: Ewan McGregor, Sam Worthington, Marcus Mumford (of Mumford & Sons), Chris Pine, Chris Hemsworth, Nathan Fillion, Channing Tatum, Jeremy Renner, Robert Downey Jr, & Ian Somerhalder.

:o


Oh dear, just read some more other replies & y'all mentioned some I forgot! Like Bradley Cooper (have you HEARD him speak French?!), Chris Evans, Colin Firth & Matt Damon. I adore those guys.

I just turned 36 and my longest crush is Johnny Depp! I also have a thing for Norman Reedus...sigh...

My boyfriend and I call them our "free passes" :devil:

My freebie is zac Hanson, which is ok since my hubby's name is zack :p

I'm in my late 30's and I'm still crushing. But the worst part is that now I'm crushing on young guys as well, it's a little pervy, but I can't help myself, Zac Effron is just too cute!

Phil Dunphy?!??! :rofl:

(kidding! but his character kills me! he'd drive me bonkers!)

:lol:

The second I realized it was a fact, I was very, very surprised actually... Because he is absolutely not my go-to type at all. Oh well :lol:

I'm 40 and still get celebrity crushes. I mean, I don't put their posters on my bedroom walls like I did when I was younger, but I still get the occasional crush. I think it can be healthy. :)

haha me tooo!! and my bff also :D i had a crush on him ever since i saw edward and scissorhands but after the pirate saga i was in love. but he's losing points with me since he "cheated" on vanessa with amber heard :dizzy:

girrrl, i'm 23 and i have a new crush almost every month haha i have 5 top actors, musicians, hotties who i'd let to deflower me :D then 5 top literary heroes, 5 top musicians, 5 top girl crushes etc...and i spend hours online on different forums waiting for new daily stalker pics and news...haha

and i still buy mags with posters of my favorite celebs :p...right now my room is full of pics of alexander skarsgard and it's funny because at first i couldn't stand that guy but now :drool:...daamn i even made a photoshop of me and him for fun and showed it to my friends and family and told them he's my new boyfriend and they actually believed me because they don't know who he is :s:

I have a masters degree in developmental psychology, and I can tell you that it is normal and even common, not only at 24, but even at 94. As long as it's not interfering with or hampering your enjoyment of your "real" life, you have nothing to worry about.

I am 47, and as I've getten older, I do find that my own fantasy crushes (not all are celebs, in fact some are fictional characters) have mostly gotten to be fewer and less intense over time, but there are exceptions (I still have a weakness for Tarzan and spaceship captain types).

Personally, I was a little creeped out by my 67 year old Mom's Twilight fixation, but even very age-discrepant fantasies are perfectly normal, because inside our heads, we're "every age." We not only have our inner 12 year old still in our head, we often "experiment" with being ages we haven't yet reached.

When it comes to fantasy life, there are those whose imaginations are more limited than others, so it's perfectly normal to fantasize wildly, and it's also perfectly normal to have virtually no fantasy life, and everything in between is normal too.

What matters is whether and to what degree you're using your fantasy world to replace real life. With weight loss this can become an issue, because to a certain extent, our culture reinforces the idea that "fat" folk shouldn't do certain things in public, so we create an inner world where those things are acceptable. Finding love, having a creative sex life (especially with a fit and sexy partner), exercising (especially swimming), wearing revealing clothes (especially bright colors)... these were some of my own personal "taboos" growing up as a "fat girl."

I have always loved swimming so much that I was willing to break the taboo (though the walk to the water often felt like a death march - once in the water I felt safe - as if the water weren't transparent), but I was in my mid-20's before I realized that I was letting my fantasy life replace real life.

Ironically it was encountering the "fat acceptance" movement that taught me that I didn't have to wait until I was thin to start living life as I wanted. I didn't have to let fat stop me from trying to do things. Instead of deciding that I couldn't do something because I was fat, I would at least try it to find out whether it was my body preventing me from doing certain things - or my belief.

I've gotten off topic more than a little bit, but the most important point is that you don't have to worry about your fantasy life if it's adding value to your real life. If it's preventing you from living in real life, or impacting negatively on your real life relationships, then you have a problem. If it's a "hobby" like any other, you have nothing to worry about.