[XLMuffnTop]

Also, most cities have First Friday art exhibits. I love going to those and it's coming up soon.

If you're in to that, it gives you plenty to talk about then you can just grab a drink and maybe something small to nibble on afterwards.

[georgepds]

Originally Posted by nelie

Museums? Zoo? Hiking? Tea house? Also depending where you live, options may vary.

Speaking as a guy.. I love the zoo. If I'm away on business travel, and have naught to do before the meeting, I always try to find the local zoo. As to get to know you potential it's great (I'm way past dating age). You walk around, the animals are always doing something interesting to talk about, and there is no need to talk all the time if you don't care to.

I agree with the OP comment about movies, you just can't talk, and if you are trying to get to know someone , talking is the way. The zoo is also better than a cafe or restaurant, where, when you are new to someone, you (well maybe it's just me) feel compelled to talk about yourself

Personally, I find the average squirrel much more interesting than anything I can say about myself, and the big cats and bears blow the squirrels away

[MiZTaCCen]

I agree with a lot of the date ideas people have pulled up, they're great.

one thing though, don't be afraid to eat a meal in front of anyone. It's one meal, it's not like your eating a meal, then going for a bag a chips, two chocolate bars and whatever else you can get your hands on. Fake your confidence if you have to. As well you can also choose healthier meals as well.

I once went on a date with this guy and got a Cajun chicken burger with a ceaser salad (instead of fries) and a pop. He wanted dessert I didn't because I don't think desserts in resturants even taste that good and he had the nerve to say to me. "What are you one of those girls who has a problem eating in front of guys?" I was ready to rip his face off for even making a comment like that. I ate my whole meal and I drank my drink I didn't see what his problem was because I didn't want some nasty dessert. I ordered one anyways and I didn't finish it, and I didn't feel bad for not finishing it either. It was gross. He didn't get a second chance with me after that one.

[yhahmd]

Date might be off. Guess I spoke too soon. We'll see. But still, these are all great ideas and good advice and experiences to read. If I ever DO go on a date...I'll be better prepared. lol.