Hello everyone!
I am yet another newbie. I just popped into the chat area and I know it sounds cliche but losing weight will not make everything else in your life perfect!
I am 34 and I still have a struggle with my self esteem but I dare myself (sometimes double dare) to do things and go places that I used to be afraid of.
Cherryarmy, you have to stop watching that show! Firstly that girl is not attractive( all the guys I know have told me they think she looks ill), secondly, no one really lives like that (Hollywood schmollywood), thirdly, wasn't that character involved with a married man? Not a good role model.
I suggest you read some books, work on things that interest you, look after yourself physically, mentally and spiritually and you may end up feeling better about yourself and it will show on the outside too. Don't put off living until you lose weight. A lot of people go through the same thing and there seems to be alot of them on this site offering help and support so hang in there!
On a lighter note..
I have finally done something that I have wanted to do since I was 15...Bellydancing!
I joined a class and was really shy at first
but the music is great and it is so much fun! It feels great!
Well I have to sign off now, good luck to everyone with their weight loss plans!