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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Riverdale, MD
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A Different Kind of Struggle
Hi. My name is Rowenna. I have been really inspired by a lot of people on these forums, and they've been a huge help to me, but I think that my story is a bit different than any I've read about on here, so I thought I'd share it and see if anyone else is in a similar situation.
Up until my senior year in high school, I was stick thin, no boobs, no curves. It still says "100 lbs" on my driver's license because that's what I weighed at 17. I could eat anything that I wanted and my weight wouldn't change, and I did. I am one of the pickiest eaters I've ever come across, and there are just about no "healthy" foods that I can bring myself to eat. I have problems with anything even remotely spicy, or textured, or crunchy, or strongly flavored. I like very bland food like bread, potatoes, meat, rice, pasta, etc. (CARBS).
My senior year in high school I started to get a bit more curvy, and when I left for college I was a "healthy" 111 lbs. My BMI was, and has always indicated that I am healthy and within the proper weight range. My habits, on the other hand, were the opposite of healthy.
In college, I began eating three meals a day on the school's meal plan. The problem was that there was now so much more food available to me. I could have pancakes and bacon every day for breakfast, and cake and cookies and ice cream and soda whenever I wanted. And I did! I also started birth control at that point, and the combination of that and my eating habits caused to me gain a lot of weight. I didn't have a scale, so I honestly don't know what I weighed for most of my first year at college, but I was between 130-140 I would guess for most of it. That doesn't sound huge, but I am very short with a very small frame, and it was much more than I should have been.
I was never concerned about losing weight, though. I had to get bigger clothes, eventually going from a size 2 to a size 8, but it didn't really bother me that much. It wasn't until Christmas of 2007 that things started to change. I came home from college in December, and remember weighing in the 130s when I first arrived. In the course of the break, I lost weight naturally, from eating less frequently and healthier, I guess. I weighed around 120 in early January, and felt much better about my body.
Around the same time, my boyfriend decided to start losing weight. He had back surgery and gained a lot of weight while recovering, and decided to start eating healthier and exercising more. This was the first time I made a conscious effort to lose weight. We made a bet about who could get to their goal first, mine being to lose ten pounds, him to lose 50. This is pretty lame to say, but he totally kicked my butt. I ate a few salads and went to the gym a few times, but ultimately I hardly lost any weight. I got to around 115, but I wasn't really motivated. My boyfriend ended up losing 70 lbs pretty quickly. I complained a lot about how hard it is to lose weight when you're not that heavy to begin with, but it really had to do with my habits.
I weight between 115-120 for the rest of that year. That is the weight I think I would be if I ate whatever I want all the time, and exercised moderately. I didn't think about my weight much again until this past Christmas. At home again, I noticed the weight falling off just like the previous year, without any conscious effort. I weighed around 112 in early January 2009, and I felt great about myself. I was finally at a weight similar to when I first started college.
Despite my satisfaction with my weight, I was completely unhappy with my body. I was weak, I was flabby in certain areas, and my habits, while better than before, were still unhealthy. I decided to start seriously working on improving my body. Weight loss was not on my mind. My goal was to learn to do push-ups, and strengthen my abs. I started a three day a week strength training regimen, and have been following it for almost 8 weeks now. The strength training jump started me into doing an overall improvement on my body. I've started doing a lot of cardio in addition to my strength training, so that you can actually see the new muscles I am developing.
I've also been trying, with mixed success, to eat healthier. It's easy enough for me to cut out bad things, I've stopped drinking soda, eating chocolate and ice cream, and most other sugary things. Adding healthy items is the tough part for me. There are some fruits that I like, but not a lot, and I don't like any vegetables.
I know I will be so much happier with my body when it is strong enough to do push-ups and sit-ups, even though it doesn't look so bad now. I also really want to lose the small layer of flab that covers my ab muscles so that you can see them! Is there anyone else out there who is mostly trying to develop healthier habits, and get stronger, rather than just losing weight?
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