September 2017 Ups & Downs Support Group thread

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  • Sorry it's taken a while to get back to everyone. I'm seriously lacking any motivation right now. I've been reading along, but I don't have the energy to write much.

    I've been looking into some hobbies, and there is a choir group that meets nearby on Monday's - I'm thinking about giving them a try. I'll keep looking for other ideas too, but it's a start.

    Hope everyone is doing well! Especially hoping everything is ok with Jessica - I'm worried we've not heard anything for a while
  • Hi Coop, its really good to see you.

    I'm in Jamestown North Dakota tonight. Just really tired.

    Much love to you all.
  • I will try to get back on tonight but HUGE props, respect, admiration and love to LISA for her solo (well, Elvira too ) road trip!!

    and hugs to Aunty Jam who is struggling

    love and hugs to everyone else too!!!
  • Quote: Hi Coop, its really good to see you.

    I'm in Jamestown North Dakota tonight. Just really tired.

    Much love to you all.
    You're doing so well! You forget just how exhausting driving is, it's really admirable how determined you are and the progress you're making just yourself. I hope Elvira is earning her way, and keeping you entertained
  • Quote: I will try to get back on tonight but HUGE props, respect, admiration and love to LISA for her solo (well, Elvira too ) road trip!!

    and hugs to Aunty Jam who is struggling

    love and hugs to everyone else too!!!
    Come back Miss Holly.
  • Quote: You're doing so well! You forget just how exhausting driving is, it's really admirable how determined you are and the progress you're making just yourself. I hope Elvira is earning her way, and keeping you entertained
    Everyone tells me that. I guess I expect a lot of myself and when I just can't mentally keep going, I feel like a failure.

    The pets are a great comfort.
  • Hey! So yeah, I am in awe of Lisa's bravery for her move and her drive. It's something that I could only do at gunpoint, I hate driving where I've never been. So you have Elvira with you, and I'm sorry I forget the other pets you have? kitties? Big long distance hug and high-five to you Lisa!! When do you expect to arrive at your new place?

    Coop, you have been great at responding to each post here and I hope you're doing well. I did not call the doctor for an appointment, it just has been hard to schedule 'cause I have just one day off a week. But I would like to do Round 2 with the diet pills, even though I read alot of negative stuff about resorting to pills for weight loss. Hey Choir sounds nice, and what about Book Clubs maybe?

    Monica great to hear from you

    Kathleen are things any better with your family I hope so!! are you having the extended summery weather as we are?

    Aunty Jam dont fret about not doing personals, thats okay!! we are just pulling for you hon

    am I forgetting anyone??

    So we are on Day 17 WITH NO RAIN. And in the past week, HOT!! truly! in the mid to high 80's! It has been pretty uncomfortable working in the kitchen, and sleeping at night a challenge, lots of fans on. ( no a/c) But Ive been riding to work EVERY DAY Have had to water the flowers 2 times a day though, the heat and sun just dries them out. But I've enjoyed them so much!!

    Accepted some dinner shifts at the Club, this Friday, next Friday, and then 2 more for Closing Weekend. Have also been regularly working 3 more hours for the RB, making money when I can
  • Quote: Everyone tells me that. I guess I expect a lot of myself and when I just can't mentally keep going, I feel like a failure.

    The pets are a great comfort.
    Yeah, driving is so monotonous! I'm lucky that this is a relatively small island, and I've never had to drive for more than 1 day, but it usually takes me about 3 days to recover!

    My aunt drives a lot, and she usually gets herself an interesting audiobook (you can get some free on podcast) - I personally get some show tunes on and sing along at the top of my lungs I'm also really enjoying a couple of podcasts at the moment: deliberations or best case/worst case, anything to brighten up the journey.
  • Holly I'm so jealous about your weather! Summer never really started for us! Hopefully it'll stick around a while longer for you guys

    I actually went to a book group before, but I could never finish the books in time, I'm too disorganised!
  • I had a good trip to the nutritionist on Tuesday, she suggested I get tested for an under-active thyroid - my mum had one, and it could explain why my weight has been weird lately. We have a couple of ideas to try as well, if the test is clear. Watch this space!
  • I'm in Butte Montana for lunch.
  • Quote: I'm in Butte Montana for lunch.
    Getting close now!
  • Quote: Getting close now!
    I'm in Missoula, Montana for the night. Last night in a motel.
  • I was driving through a slightly rougher part of town yesterday and saw a woman getting mugged, so I pulled over in an attempt to scare him off & make sure she was safe. I managed to get a good look at him, and gave details to the police, but I am now super-paranoid and anxious about it all. I really hope he confesses so I don't have to go to court
  • I'm here. I don't feel well though.

    Ill try to post tomorrow.