Wow, I agree with all of that

Bellamack, I felt (I don't know the word for it) but caring parent fits the bill. I agree 100% as it is so true that some of us do feel like we are doing great and we don't need the meds and then we go off. As a person who has been there, I know that nothing good ever comes of that.
But saying it's just another illness and that it's not who you are is sort of hard for me to accept. Other diseases although life threatening at times don't rule your mind...Bipolar is your mind. Up or down or in the middle it's there. Even with my medication I "swing" so I have to be conscientious every day. And this is where I think healthy living is so important.
Proper eating, mindful eating and exercise really really helps. I have more energetic days now. It used to be I was more depressed than manic (IMO...maybe not family's opinion) but now that I exercise, I can't sit still and I don't dwell as much. For me that's good. On the other hand if not "chaperoned" sometimes it's not so good. But I put my energy into working out and it's helping me stay "centered". I've cut out sugar and lowered caffeine and I can't tell you the change it has made for me. I guess you would have to know me to really see the difference.
I wish you well, do some research, don't let this "rule" you as others said, but be mindful it's still apart of you

It also might just be me, mind you, that if I don't say hi I'm bipolar people might think I'm "crazy" or "weird" and with a little explanation as to why I'm singing or dancing helps people understand that I'm not "normal" but I'm not "crazy"...I hope that made sense...but I'm almost positive it didn't and that's another lovely part of being me....good luck.