I see a lot of us are really really close to Onderland already! That's exciting! I may be the only one left in the end
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Originally Posted by cathydoe
I have NEVER done a weight loss challenge. I have always been secretive about my weight and the numbers.
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This is the perfect place to do it, since we have no clue who you are
Talk freely.
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Originally Posted by Matilda08
. I would really love to make it there. Sometime it feels impossible but I know I can do it.
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I get hit by the "impossible" thinking as well. We CAN do it. WE CAN! I have been talking to myself a lot, saying "I am in control. I don't need it. I can do this" like a crazy person
but whatever works, right?
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Originally Posted by AbbySinthe
And it seems like the closer I get to it, the more I self-sabotage. I'm still working on that one.
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I self-sabotage as well but have done a lot of journaling and am starting to have insight into why I do that. I don't feel I deserve a happy life or anything good and I have some fears of being thin again for good reasons...but they are OLD reasons I need to let go of. I think if you get some insight into your issues on this it will be easier to stop self-sabotaging. I don't think it's something we can "just stop." Or at least I couldn't.
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Originally Posted by AbbySinthe
But I'm pretty sure I weighed 247 this time last year, so at least it's an improvement.
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Consider it a really big step in the right direction and walk in there proud.