Awesome post!
Here are some of the things I do that work. Nothing always works for me, I lose some battles. But as long as Im working at it, Im winning the war is what I tell myself
- If in a binge heavy period of life, I personally require super strictness in the foods I can eat. This means I pick a total list of 10 foods that are all lean protein, veggies and a couple fruits. The simplicity makes for fewer decisions, and the blandness reduces binges. Plus these are now my "safe" foods, so I rarely even would want to binge on them (and for me not much falls into that category in dark times). Obviously this is a short term approach to get myself on track and not anything to be sustained.
- Similarly I tend to be very strict on eating times. NO eating after 8pm. If I follow this habit, I can pretty well avoid my worst binge times (9-11pm)
- Tea and coffee. Americanos (just espresso + water) are lower in caffeine than drip and they suppress my appetite with surprising success. I do herbal teas late at night when I want something sweet (this manages to satisfy without triggering like a low cal snack would for me)
- Physical distraction (things focused on senses like showering and also things focused on task completion like cleaning or organizing)
- Mental distraction (movies work well for me if its captivating, calling a friend)
- Sleep
- Meditation (2m deep breathing)
- Rationalization (I am rarely mindless in eating, but I a phenomenally will full…as in, "yes Im about to binge…so what. I dont have to rationalize it, Im just going to sink deeper into this hole." If I can simply force myself to actually go to the rationalizing step I can back down sometimes)
- No food in the house. I shop pretty much daily.
- Bring leftovers to the office/throw it out. I have seriously bought a pint of ice cream, had one serving and melted the rest down the sink with hot water.
- Destress! Usually if Im having bad binges, its because Im having bad stress. Plus the binges actually stress me out. This tends to make me hide from life, but what helps is destressing by getting massages, visiting with friends, volunteering, reading a magazine, etc.