Agreed.
That is what I love about calorie counting, and making healthy choices. I don't always eat PERFECTLY...but I don't avoid healthy foods. Some days I feel like having 3 sqaure meals a day...and other days I feel like eating large quantities of something that is in season (like watermelon, sweet corn, or green beans) from the garden or local market...and that's what I do.
It isn't uncommon for me at all, say on a camping weekend, to eat a small lean hamburger on the grill during the cookout...and munch on huge portions of fruit and veggies all day long, and then maybe have a small marshmallow or two over the fire that evening. (50 calories)
It's not a perfect day, of course, but I have learned to make healthier choices on days where I normally wouldn't (weddings, parties, camping trips, vacations, etc.)
I have just learned to live, and make calorie counting a lifestyle, not a diet. If I want to eat large portions of watermelon, I'm going to-because it's not Ben & Jerry's at 500 calories a cup.