Body Image and Issues after Weight Loss Including discussions about excess skin and reconstructive surgery

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Old 09-01-2008, 08:29 PM   #16  
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Likes:
Bones I thought I never had-collar bones, hip bones, cheek bones
Smaller bra size
Can wear high heels again
New clothes, nice new clothes
Trying on a pair of jeans or blouse and realizing they're too big
Muscle definition in arms and legs

Dislikes:
Belly-like Santa's
A bit of wobbly neck and arms
Bum getting too small and flat (My bum and belly have switched places!!!)
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Old 09-01-2008, 11:22 PM   #17  
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I forgot to add some stuff, so here goes!

I like my small waist. It's great to be able to wear belts again!

I do not like my tiny boobies. They look like deflated tires. Ok, not that bad, but why, why, why do they have to go??? I started off with a 38D and now, I'm about 34 to 36 A++ or B-- and I'm not even at goal. Are they planning on becoming concave??? I'm just wondering!

Thanks for letting me brag & vent and thanks everyone for all your responses. It's nice to know there's just as much good stuff than bad...and sometimes even more good than bad!
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Old 09-02-2008, 02:11 AM   #18  
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Likes:

Being able to wear cute clothes and look good in them;
Shopping in the regular size section of stores, and giving away all my plus-size clothes;
No longer waking up at night feeling like I can't breathe;
The feeling I can fit into places better (e.g. restaurant booths);
Getting all this new attention from men;
Compliments from people, who tell me I am an inspiration;
The feeling that I can do more with my body, like play sports and climb stairs;
Higher self-esteem and confidence.

What I don't like:

Being in-between sizes and seeing a beautiful piece of clothing I like that's expensive: I won't spend a lot on something I won't be able to wear for very long;
Feeling cold a lot;
Still feeling big, and my stomach is still big: working at it but it seems like it'll take forever to get small. Oh well, I always figured it would be the last to go and I was right.

As you can see, there's a lot more I like than don't like. Like I've told people, along with quitting smoking, losing weight is the best thing I've ever done for myself.
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Old 09-02-2008, 02:58 AM   #19  
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Woo! I love brag & nag lists <3

Likes:
My face has a great shape to it.
My long limbs (Gangly? What's that? ).
Decent muscle tone in my legs.
My overall body shape.
My strength.
Good posture.

Likes-not-so-much:
The impossible belly fat :grr:
Stretch Marks
My thighs are a weird shape (???)


Overall, the scaled down version of myself is what I'm looking for.
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Old 09-02-2008, 03:42 AM   #20  
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Likes:

- great forearms. I just love them, lol! Super toned - probably from years of drumming and more recently, strength training and boxing.
- really strong legs. great glutes with a good kick of power.
- good endurance, especially for cycling

dislikes:
chubby upper arms - working on it (overall fat reduction)
...wow I cant believe thats all i can think of. 20 kilos ago this would have been a very different post !

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Old 09-03-2008, 01:41 PM   #21  
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Likes:
Being able to shop for new clothes.
Being complemented on my appearance.
Feeling fit at the gym.
Feeling less bloated and lethargic.
Seeing my cholesterol drop 30 points in 6 months.

Dislikes:
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Originally Posted by luckymommy View Post
I do not like my tiny boobies. They look like deflated tires. Ok, not that bad, but why, why, why do they have to go??? I started off with a 38D and now, I'm about 34 to 36 A++ or B-- and I'm not even at goal. Are they planning on becoming concave??? I'm just wondering!
While I was never really generous on top, it's ridiculous now. They look like bean bags to me. I love my Victoria Secret BioFit push-up bra!
Sometimes I have trouble finding clothes small enough. Crazy! In some stores I can wear a size 2 now and I can't find it in stock. I still can't wrap my head around that!
Saggy skin on back of arms. Bat-wings!
Veins on my arms and hands so prominent that people comment on them.
More facial wrinkling (Those creams just aren't doing it for me).
Being colder-as the cold weather approaches I'm dreading it.
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Old 09-03-2008, 04:08 PM   #22  
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My "likes" and "dislikes" lists are equal in length, but BELIEVE ME, the good outweighs the bad for sure!

Likes:
My "monster legs" (they're long and super toned)
My flat stomach
Being able to find and buy something that looks cool and not having to worry too much about whether or not it will make me look fat
My beautifully toned biceps
My protruding collar bones
My low body fat percentage (I went from 31% to 15.5% )
The sculpted booty that I didn't have at my highest weight (it was just a trunk of jello back then) or while previously thin (it was a flat pancake booty in those days!)

Dislikes:
My loose skin - despite having ab definition, my belly button looks like a deflated balloon up close
The stretch marks I have on my stomach, sides, and back
My deflated boobies
The stretch marks my boobies acquired
The fact my boobies aren't as perky as they were when they were more, erm, INFLATED!
I feel like I still have trace amounts of back fat
And my body dysmorphia... while my self image has gotten much more reasonable and I have gotten significantly more confident, I fear I will always think I have fat deposits in places I don't and that I will always yank clothes off the rack that are too big for me because I still think I'm bigger than I am despite knowing I am nowhere near fat.

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Old 09-03-2008, 04:23 PM   #23  
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I like how Im starting to look good in pictures again!
I like getting noticed for my HARD work!
I like waking up in the morning to see if I lost weight!
I like how I feel physically & mentally
I like that I am starting to feel like myself again!

Dislikes:
Stretch marks!!
my boobs
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Old 09-03-2008, 10:48 PM   #24  
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Likes:
My relatively slim looking face
My ginormous eyes
My waist (I have one!)
My less than totally sucky jogging capability
My starting-to-protrude collarbone

Dislikes:
MY LEGS. I don't know what the heck it is, but they are way too huge for the rest of me, even my calves, which really don't have much fat on them.
My general hairiness
My too wide for their length feet.

But from the waist up I'm fine with it.
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Old 09-04-2008, 07:25 AM   #25  
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i don't like my arms . i like my small face a lot of people say i have a baby face .
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Old 09-04-2008, 10:24 AM   #26  
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Likes:
Wearing cute little camisole tops
My thighs no longer rub together
Muscle definition in my arms
Being able to wear little sizes (XS - petites)

Dislikes:
Saggy abdominal poochy skin
And, I'm still a pear, if I could just suck the remaining fat from my thighs and transfer it to my boobs (currently a 32A!!!) ...
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Old 09-04-2008, 10:51 AM   #27  
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Like
I am seeing toning going on. My body is getting into shape and the time and effort is worth the results I am seeing.

Dislikes
I am never going to get rid of this chest. I went from a 34B to a 42D and it doesn't seem like it wants to go away no matter how much weight I lose. I am still into a 40D.

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Old 09-05-2008, 12:42 PM   #28  
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Like
Arms
I feel strong
I feel healthy
Boobs
Toned

Dislikes
Stomach I need to flatten
Lovehandles have to get rid of them
Everything that involves my stomach area
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Old 09-05-2008, 03:27 PM   #29  
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I like:-
My collarbone definition
my teeny waist (under 26"!!)
How my abs are toning up
My wrists and ankes
My long leaner legs
My slender back
My cheekbones
Recognition for my hard work!

I don't like:-
My saddlebags - I'd have em removed in a minute if I had the cash
My boobs - I can actually feel my ribs through them - thank the lord for gel bras, that's what I say!!!
My bum - is still flabbier than I'd like and a bit of a weird shape when I'm naked!
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Old 09-07-2008, 03:03 AM   #30  
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I like:
my boobs
my legs

my dislikes:
my tummy!!! (big one)
my arms.
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