Woo Hoo
Blue Can Do!!!

Thank you too Michelle for all your hard work for us!
(Oh and yeah, it should have been "gym"

but that wouldn't rhyme very well with Shish Boom Bah

)
All this work you do and you got 96% on Business Law??? You are awesome!
Lisa - congratulations on being the big winner - no wonder you fit into those new jeans - enjoy your new bod and having your daughter home - you must be on
Debbie - I used to live in Riverside too and moved here because of the crime, the smog and the commuting/traffic. We moved to Oregon 12 years ago and really hate going back into the fray to visit. It IS brown, ugly, crowded and expensive - why do people flock there?

Glad you made it to the NW.
Jennifer - just remember that emotional eating won't really make you feel better - in fact, you'll end up feeling worse, guilty, etc. Accept your crisis, that it is a little uncomfortable, but that you are willing to deal with a little discomfort to reach your goal of health and looking good. You are worth it!
Tawny - you poor dear.

My DH also has PTSD and we've been married 29 years!!! He was no picnic to live with in his younger years, and there were times I wanted to leave, but he begged me to stay. After moving here to Oregon, I learned of a PTSD women's group at the local VA and that helped a lot. I used to go there crying about this or that, but the counselor was great and helped all of us through living with these wounded warriors. One important thing is that you have to make a life for yourself. It doesn't mean you ignore him, but it also doesn't mean what he thinks you are, or should do, should define you either. Try to find yourself, the real you, and make
yourself happy. It often works out that in doing this, he will realize he likes who you really are (not the person he creates with his controlling nature) and you can start really talking. He will never stop trying to control

everything you do, so don't expect that. Having been through whatever he's been through makes him want to control everything so he will never be hurt like that again. You have a tough road ahead, but you must work on
yourself. It's not selfish, it's essential and healthy. My prayers are with you - you can do it.
Dora